I'm feeling guilty about my last post.
Well, maybe it's not guilt.
It's more like worry. I'm worried I gave people the wrong idea.
I don't want people to think I'm against public crying.
And in fact.... I have cried in public.
The funny thing is the times that come immediately to mind involve Australian folks.
One was when I was at a playground in Sydney. I was sad about having to go back to America soon. I was on the verge of tears. Then my friend called. I'm often okay at holding back my tears; but that's not the case when I'm forced to speak.
So I started to cry in front of her (phone-wise); and in front of whoever was at the playground.
I cried in Hawaii when we were with our friends. We were soon to say good-bye to our rental house and we were taking last minute group photos. I was all choked up and then a song came on that put me over the edge.
Yeah. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I'm not a cold-hearted bitch.
I'm not against crying.
I'm definitely not against showing emotion.
But I still do admire the ability to stay strong despite the sadness. Maybe it's not about crying vs. not crying. It's probably more about continuing what needs to be done when we're feeling sad.
And yes. I also understand that sometimes things get so overly bad. And then you can't hold it together, and you completely fall apart. What's admirable in those cases is when (if) the person is eventually able to be okay again. I think it takes huge amounts of courage to survive something like that.